Thank you!

This week, I caught up with my great friend David McCracken. I went away so grateful for his friendship because none of us has ever got to where we are by ourselves.  Every person in our lives builds something into our souls. Some bring strength and some bring sorrow, but real friends always affect your faith for good. Their influence draws you closer to God.  Proverbs says to pick your friends thoughtfully “lest you learn his ways” (Pro 22:24-25).  In other words, we become like those we hang out with.

 Jonathan and David weren’t natural kin, yet Jonathan “loved David as his own soul” (1 Sam 18:3). He stripped off his royal robe, gave David his armour, and willingly promoted his rival—because he recognised David’s value to God.

A real friend isn’t a competitor or a critic—they’re a champion for your calling. They rejoice at your promotions, feel your pain and guard your heart against pride. They stay closer than a brother, bearing your burdens, celebrating your wins, and protecting your reputation.

Friend, have you got someone who fans your faith, stirs your passion for Jesus, and helps you navigate life’s battles? They are like a Jonathan. Thank God for them: they are your treasure, and ask God to help you grow into that kind of friend for someone else. Why not write or phone to affirm their gifting?

If they are like a David to you, who you want to serve: declare their destiny, offer your prayer and practical help and commit to standing with them through every battle.